Holding The Container

When people ask me to explain the counseling process, I most often describe the Existential-Humanistic intervention of “holding the container”, which I learned from my friend and colleague Bob Edelstein. Counseling is the creation of a safe space within which a person can do their work. An integral part of this space is the counselor being an unwavering, unflappable presence. Clients feel free to truly be themselves, and no matter what they bring up in their process, they know their counselor can handle it.  This keeps the focus on the needs and experience of the client.

I think of a retreat center as being the same way – a safe and sacred space where guests can be themselves and feel free to examine their life and ministry with authenticity. For some, this may be a space to rest, relax, and enjoy what the area has to offer. For others, it may be a space for training, coaching, or counseling.  For all, it will be a space that provides opportunity to connect more deeply with God, and to experience the love and care of a community of believers. The focus will be on whatever God has brought them to the center to experience.

As things slowly start to take shape for our ministry, I think a lot about what it may look like to hold the container for God's global workers. I look forward to the unfolding of God’s plan with great anticipation, and feel honored that He has chosen us to be a part of it.

by Risa